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so there is this guy, and we recently became friends. but even before we became friends i always thought he would make a good boyfriend for me.. so then one day my close friend was like wow you and __^ would be a great couple! (shes one of his good friends) so then after she said that i started to hang out with her and him so we could become friends! THEN he started to like one of my best friends but she didnt like him back (this kinda hurt my feelings, even tho he didnt know i liked him) but then we start texting a bit. nothing serious tho and then before i went on vacation 2 weeks ago my close friend told me he was kinda "into me" and to keep talking to him, so we talked a bit more frequently then i went on vacation.. and when i came back and he didn't seem into me like AT ALL anymore (BUT VACATION WAS ONLY ONE WEEK! what could have happeneddd?) --- and i dont want to say something to him like "why are you into to me anymore" because he doesn't know i knew my close friend told me that. and i dont want to say something to my close friend because i haven't told her that i like him.. awkward situation, what do you think i should do?!

i have no idea what could have happened i mean, unless you were here theres no answers. boys are strange and show off different feelings all the time. he may be going through a hard time, and just doesnt want to talk, i mean there are millions of reasons, but its hard to tell. just talk to him, ask him why his acting different? the worst you will get is ‘nothing’. so go ahead and try. xx

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fuck so i really like this guy and hes my close friend, like were very close. he tells me mostly everything...he tell me how he likes this other girl. he hasn't liked her for long, and shes my best friends sister. ive liked him for, say maybe 5 months or less? and i really want to tell him. i was thinking maybe its just a phase kinda thing and ill get over him but i dont think i am any time soon. i pick him up from school and hes all blah blah blah about her and its kinda hurting me. what do i do? do i tell him? or do i just keep it to myself? helpp :)

the best thing to do is get it off your chest i mean theres no point bottling it up it just makes everything so much worse. just talk to him you seem really close, im sure he will understand, and you never know the feelings may be mutal. sorry for taking forever to reply, but theres no harm in expressing your feelings. xx

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i recently broke up with my boyfriend, and i was looking everywher for him to tell him but i couldnt find him, so i did it over text. i know that it is one of the worst ways to break up with someone, and i feel really bad. everyone is now calling me a slut and a whore and that im being the biggest bitch, i only have a few close friends that understand... i dont really care what people are saying about me, but should i care? or should i just keep ignoring them like i am now? xxx

i know what you did wasnt the most smart thing to do, but i admire you for ignoring them, its your personal life it has nothing to do with anyone. so dont worry what they say, it means nothing. give it time everyone will get over it, and you can start fresh xx

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two people are arguing and they are both my friends. i think both of them want me to take one side and not the other but i really dont want to take sides since they are both my friends! help please???

the best thing to do, is just dont get involved its the easiest way. as soon as you put your two cents in they will see that your taking one of their sides and it will make the situation so much worse. get them to just be honest, talk to eachother but dont get involved eventually over time it will sort itself out. xx

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i dont feel anything, help! i had a thing with a guy and it was defiently gooing to turn into something, but i stopped this from happening i have no idea why, so we ended up ending badly and now he like hates me, but i feel nothing i dont even miss him, i dont feel anything, apparently he cried when i ended it, but i didnt, i tried too, but i physically couldnt. now a guy i kinda had a crush on, but not really, i just found out has a girlfriend, and i dont care, i want to feel something, i just cant.

you dont feel anything is because your not commited to a person, when you know you like someone so much you will feel pain, i was the same, i didnt care if i broke up with my boyfriend. i just couldnt bring tears to my eyes. it takes time and when you find the right person i bet you, that you will be so scared to ever loose them.xx

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i thought that you'd never answer me.....but i was wrong... thanks for your advice :"")

i always will get to answer everybody <3

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you are so amazing :) everything about you screams beauty both inside and out! Your style is wonderful and.. and.. you're just great!

honestly means the world to me! <3

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Thanks for replying to my ask.. I was http://anythinggoeswithsecrets.tumblr.com/post/3933791484/there-was-this-boy-i-liked-last-year-he-knew-that-i .. thanks for the advice. Yeah I do not want to ask him but the other problem is.. he doesn't talk to me.. the hint you said.. he looks at me is the only thing he does.

if he doesnt talk to you, you just have somehow make him comfortable, be yourself, act natural. the more time you hang around him the more comfortable he will come. and as you become closer it will be easier to talk about things! xx

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hey, well im frankie and im 15. Earlier on this year i slept with this girls boyfriend. Everyone found out about a month ago and im getting shit for it... i don't know what to-do though, im being told im ugly, slutty, bitchy, horrible, no one likes me, never to go back etc. etc. im finding it hard to deal with it all though. :/ i cry myself to sleep every night. I've hurt alot of people. i've been so stressed about this whole hate thing that i yelled at an old friend because she was ignoring me. i did it in front of her sisters. which is truly horrible! i don';t know what came over me.

please, please, can you help me? i don't know what to-do :(

its the past and now you cant change what is done. i mean your always going to regret it, but its over now and the sooner people move on the better. time is the only thing that will solve this problem. it takes time, but slowly people will forget what happened, and it will become the past. take all the grief now, it can only get better from here. xx

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